Saturday, January 24, 2009

Rejection

I believe that the Human is programmed to become saddened if rejected in any sort of way.
Certainly it is easy to say that most of us conform to avoid rejection,

Us Humans have a basic need to be accepted and will go lengths for this to happen.

Two opposites come in to mind. One could do something in front of others with the hope of becoming accepted and one could also NOT do something in front of people with the hope of the same, avoiding rejection.

People who choose to NOT DO THINGS or NOT GO SOMEWHERE on behalf of acceptence in my mind are weak individuals. EX; Someone needs something at the store one person says to the other "hurry, i dont want anyone to see me here". What? Really? What does it matter? I am sure this gets really dramatic the higher end of society you come across!! i can just imagine Paris Hilton in Wal-Mart!!

One other thing i find fascinating, A person who is actively being rejected and not knowing. This is more obvious when more than one person is feeling the same way but also effective if just one is trying to reject but the rejected is being either reluctant, ignorant, or does not have the basic human need of acceptance. If a situation like this does not bother a person than they evidently have defective genes!! haha just kidding!!





One last thought, aint it funny how i write three seperate entries instead of one long blog of a whole bunch of stuff, i had a lot to write today and i hope you enjoy and comment as needed!!! THANKS TO MY THREE FOLLOWERS LOVE!

1 comment:

Amanda said...

Hi Candy! I found you! Thanks for sommenting on my blog. I liked your deep thoughts here...Hmmm...are you thinking about specific people at work :0

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