I believe that the Human is programmed to become saddened if rejected in any sort of way.
Certainly it is easy to say that most of us conform to avoid rejection,
Us Humans have a basic need to be accepted and will go lengths for this to happen.
Two opposites come in to mind. One could do something in front of others with the hope of becoming accepted and one could also NOT do something in front of people with the hope of the same, avoiding rejection.
People who choose to NOT DO THINGS or NOT GO SOMEWHERE on behalf of acceptence in my mind are weak individuals. EX; Someone needs something at the store one person says to the other "hurry, i dont want anyone to see me here". What? Really? What does it matter? I am sure this gets really dramatic the higher end of society you come across!! i can just imagine Paris Hilton in Wal-Mart!!
One other thing i find fascinating, A person who is actively being rejected and not knowing. This is more obvious when more than one person is feeling the same way but also effective if just one is trying to reject but the rejected is being either reluctant, ignorant, or does not have the basic human need of acceptance. If a situation like this does not bother a person than they evidently have defective genes!! haha just kidding!!
One last thought, aint it funny how i write three seperate entries instead of one long blog of a whole bunch of stuff, i had a lot to write today and i hope you enjoy and comment as needed!!! THANKS TO MY THREE FOLLOWERS LOVE!
Saturday, January 24, 2009
Friday, January 23, 2009
Tid Bits
My Computer is not stable, so please pray it a better future and forgive if i disappear for a few days.
Why is it that i feel i am constantly paying for something?
Why is it that being a server pays more then if i were to go into what i went to college for? Tonight i made $30.00 an hour!! If I went to apply for what a B.A. in Psych could get for a job i would be lucky to get $15 an hour!! More importantly teachers, police officers all these well deserving and needed people get paed less then $30.00 an hour, is this what our country loves, and strives for FOOD? Yes my friends it is, U.S. of A. loves its food.
Why do i want to be more organized but dont do anything to change my ways?
If reencarnation is real what where you and what are you going to be after you pass on as a Human? Me i was a cat definetly beasue i am afraid of fish and birds hahaha i had enough of them in my past life!! and i want to become T-Rex.
Cardinals or Steelers
Shows that are a must watch;
The Bachelor
One Tree Hill
The Mentalist
House
Life
Lie to Me (new)
Fringe
Top Chef
Scrubs
CSI
CSI New York
(LOST) i need to start it
Not that i dont watch enough tv!!
Is this enough tid bits for you yet?!?
Why is it that i feel i am constantly paying for something?
Why is it that being a server pays more then if i were to go into what i went to college for? Tonight i made $30.00 an hour!! If I went to apply for what a B.A. in Psych could get for a job i would be lucky to get $15 an hour!! More importantly teachers, police officers all these well deserving and needed people get paed less then $30.00 an hour, is this what our country loves, and strives for FOOD? Yes my friends it is, U.S. of A. loves its food.
Why do i want to be more organized but dont do anything to change my ways?
If reencarnation is real what where you and what are you going to be after you pass on as a Human? Me i was a cat definetly beasue i am afraid of fish and birds hahaha i had enough of them in my past life!! and i want to become T-Rex.
Cardinals or Steelers
Shows that are a must watch;
The Bachelor
One Tree Hill
The Mentalist
House
Life
Lie to Me (new)
Fringe
Top Chef
Scrubs
CSI
CSI New York
(LOST) i need to start it
Not that i dont watch enough tv!!
Is this enough tid bits for you yet?!?
Conversations of a server!!
Getting back into what this blog was originally meant for!! FUNNY THINGS AND GOOD WRITING.
So as you may know I am a server at Longhorn and tonight Friday night as usual we have our 14 servers on so everything is flying everywhere and your bumpin into everyone its a real fun time at the Horn.
So one of the servers today shared something that was obviuosly thought out before hand with me and a couple more, and this topic is dear to my heart so i must concur.
So this one particular server comes up and says "i hate when they steal your pens" I listened in becasue i agree pens are almost more important then the tip!!! So another chimes in and says "yea i wish ou pens had a button so when you pushed it it would explode so that they would get hurt" Well the first server says back "no what would be better a pen that when you get so far away from the owner of the pen it nukes you or better it tazers you and you fall down and deficate in your pants and your convulsing and then i will come and take my pen back and say thanks for the tip!"
This was very funny but i have also realized while reading it back to myself kind of a halfassed edit not so much when you write in in a blog!! SO back to square one, ramblings of nonsense by me. I apologize
So as you may know I am a server at Longhorn and tonight Friday night as usual we have our 14 servers on so everything is flying everywhere and your bumpin into everyone its a real fun time at the Horn.
So one of the servers today shared something that was obviuosly thought out before hand with me and a couple more, and this topic is dear to my heart so i must concur.
So this one particular server comes up and says "i hate when they steal your pens" I listened in becasue i agree pens are almost more important then the tip!!! So another chimes in and says "yea i wish ou pens had a button so when you pushed it it would explode so that they would get hurt" Well the first server says back "no what would be better a pen that when you get so far away from the owner of the pen it nukes you or better it tazers you and you fall down and deficate in your pants and your convulsing and then i will come and take my pen back and say thanks for the tip!"
This was very funny but i have also realized while reading it back to myself kind of a halfassed edit not so much when you write in in a blog!! SO back to square one, ramblings of nonsense by me. I apologize
Tuesday, January 20, 2009
Whats on my mind right now...
Absolutley hysterical quote...
"Ducks do not have but cheeks, thier farts don't ripple like humans".
Brock , my brother
A question on my mind
"If i am first in your heart, then why is it when i call to confide and get advice, and help and support you get angry with me, and tell me to call when i am not upset. If i truly didnt call until i felt better then that would be never again becasue you right now are the only thing that can make it better for me."
How i feel today
I feel alone, Pedro not here, Brock not being supportive, and making it worse by inviting friends over while i sit here by myself awaiting work, which i dont want to go to. My parents one crazy and the other depressed. My one friend who moved away and dosent call, my other who now has a baby and is busy, all the others arent close enough to be able to talk to on a level which i need to, to be able to feel better. I have a big zit on my face!!
"Ducks do not have but cheeks, thier farts don't ripple like humans".
Brock , my brother
A question on my mind
"If i am first in your heart, then why is it when i call to confide and get advice, and help and support you get angry with me, and tell me to call when i am not upset. If i truly didnt call until i felt better then that would be never again becasue you right now are the only thing that can make it better for me."
How i feel today
I feel alone, Pedro not here, Brock not being supportive, and making it worse by inviting friends over while i sit here by myself awaiting work, which i dont want to go to. My parents one crazy and the other depressed. My one friend who moved away and dosent call, my other who now has a baby and is busy, all the others arent close enough to be able to talk to on a level which i need to, to be able to feel better. I have a big zit on my face!!
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About Me
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- Hopefully you will all get to know me very well, as my whole entire blog will be the latter "about me" but until then 24 years of age living in what was once called the number one city in america, but i bet none of you know this. I do not and will not capitilize my i's that are in the middle of a sentence. I am married to a man who has a big heart but it is hidden and i am on the forever journey to try and find it. I recently thought of starting a blog because i believe some things that happen in life are worth writing down. This might be a string off of my new found love of books.
